Monthly Archives: July 2007

The Secret – Law of Attraction

It has been sometime I have came across the NLP and after cleaning up my hard drive, I found the video on The Secret which is basically Law of Attraction.

It is a superb video that I had ever watched. I went to Alamanda, Putrajaya today and found out that the book was sold at RM69.90.

I have already had the dvd so I don’t really need the book. I bought Law of Attraction book from Michael J. Losier instead.

Here is one of the video I found from the internet.

Summary of Universal Law of Attraction

This universal law is working in your life right now, whether you are aware of it or not. You are attracting the people, situations, jobs and much more into your life. Once you are aware of this law and how it works, you can start to use it to deliberately attract what you want into your life.

How do you create your desires using the powerful law? There are just a few basic steps.

1. Get very clear on what you want
2. Visualize and raise your vibration about it
3. Take inspired action
4 . Allow It

You must be very clear on exactly what your desire is. Focus on it. Give it all your positive energy. Feel good!

A major factor behind this Universal Law is the energy and vibrations of our emotions and feelings. Any thought you may have, when combined with emotion, vibrates out from you to the universe and will attract back what you want.

You can leave all the details to the universe. Let the Universe figure out the method of delivery, when you will receive it, etc. Now all you have to do is Allow It. Sounds easy, right? This can be the most difficult part to do. Be doubt-free. All you need to do is expect it. Act like you already have it. Be grateful.

And always take inspired action. If something feels right, then go ahead and do it. Taking action is an important step.

That is it! You can always be expectant of good things, your desires. Feel good knowing your desire is on its way to you.

Always expect your desires. Expect miracles.


Law Of Attraction – Power Of Visualization – Dream VideoFor more amazing video clips, click here

How can you find halal food or restaurant

Personally, I would ask or do

  • -malay steward/stewardess when you took Malaysia airlines
  • -ask malaysia students where are the halal food restaurant or products
  • -visit http://zabihah.com for halal restaurant review. I did some review myself.
  • -search the internet with this quote “halal+place” . Change the place with your visiting place

halal

Italy

I have been to Italy twice already this year (2007). Once in January and the other one is in June 2007. I was assigned to work in Milan for a month.

First time I was there, I just wander around Milan. The famous area are Piazza del Duomo and Shopping disctrict Monte Napoleone. The easiest way to get to Milan by air or train. I flew from Amsterdam to Milan Malpensa. I took Royal Dutch KLM from Kuala Lumpur to Amsterdam and from Amsterdam to Milan. There is direct connection from Kuala Lumpur to Milan. The reason why I used Royal Dutch KLM is because I want to get some miles point from Enrich Malaysia Airlines. As I can spend the miles point for other trips to Stockholm this coming september.

This trip, during weekend I went out of Milan to Monaco Monte Carlo and Pisa. It is really nice and enjoyable trip.

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How to overcome Negative Thoughts

Even the most positive person gets negative thoughts!

Yes, that’s true.

Olympian John Konrads won one gold and one bronze medal in the 1960 Rome Olympics. During the 400-meter freestyle, for which Konrads won the bronze medal, he said he lost focus by nurturing negative thoughts on how arch rival Murray was going to perform. Konrads confessed that though he had convinced himself he could win, these thoughts got in the way and blew his chances.

Actually, negative thoughts are commonplace and anyone can be a ‘victim’ to them. However, it’s not the presence of negative thoughts but the way we handle and react to them that either breaks or makes our confidence and self-esteem.

Think over this:

NOTHING HAS ANY MEANING IN LIFE,
ONLY THE MEANING YOU GIVE TO IT.

If you ALLOW negative thoughts to HARM you – THEY WILL!

If you ALLOW negative thoughts to HELP you – THEY WILL!

Before we get into this session it’s important to keep a few points in mind:

• It’s not only you that gets negative thoughts; everyone on this planet gets them.
• You are not making an attempt to uproot negative thoughts here. Just handling them more smartly.
• Negative thoughts, as such, do not harm you. It’s what you say to yourself after the thought has entered your head that harms you.
• You can change any thought you want by changing what it means to you.

With that taken into account, let’s kick off this session!

Analyzing your thoughts

Want to increase your confidence? You have to first find out what triggers off those negative thoughts and emotions you have about yourself.

It becomes easier to analyze and respond to them if you write them down.

FYI, it is not the trigger or the event that instigates the bad feelings. What make you feel despondent are the internal dialogues you say to yourself in response to the trigger.
These catalysts distort reality and put your feelings in turmoil.

That’s the kind of turmoil Lynette got into. Her husband Roger had been quite distracted over the past few days. Lynette tried talking to him on a couple of occasions but he wasn’t forthcoming. She heard him talking in hushed tones over the phone, and he also came home late more often than before. Lynette was perturbed beyond words. She spent hours talking to herself, wondering what Roger was up to.

She would have said:

• “He’s ignoring me.”
• “Maybe he’s having an affair with someone.”
• “He doesn’t find me attractive or interesting anymore.”

What would she have felt?

• Anger
• Resentment
• Grief
• Self-pity

Maybe she should have been more probing; or given more time to her husband. Did she know her husband well enough to arrive at these conclusions?

How to feel Confident all the time

Self-confidence is essential..

The power of the mind is truly remarkable

How you feel in any given moment is linked to:

• What you are focusing on
• The way you are moving and using your body
• The language you are using

No doubt, your mind controls all three.

The moment you feel lethargic or need an instant confidence/ energy boost just change the way you feel by changing the above 3 points.

1. What you are focusing on

Stay conscious of what you are focusing on in that particular moment.

Are they negative and lethargic thoughts? Low in confidence? Are they indicating that you would fail? Are you telling yourself that you feel low in energy?

Yes?

What would you have to focus on to feel vibrant and full of energy? What should you focus on to feel confident?

On the other hand, if you are feeling vibrant and energized right now, what are you thinking about?

2. The way you are moving and using your body

This is also called your physiology.

Emotion is created by motion, and the fewer movements you make the less energy you will have!

Moreover, the type of movements you make either pump you up or make you languid and want to doze off.

Observe your body when you are feeling low in confidence.

Are you sitting down? Is your head up or down? Are your shoulders slouched? Are you walking slowly or quickly? Are your facial muscles moving? What are you doing with your hands?

3. The language you are using

The words you say to yourself both in your mind and out aloud will have an impact on how you are feeling.

What words do you use to describe negative emotions?

Do you say? :

“I’m feeling tired”
“I’m stupid”
“I’m angry”
“I’m livid”
“I’m overwhelmed”
“I’m depressed”

Write down some more common phrases like those above that you use:

The intensity of those negative sayings will have an effect on how you feel and whether you feel confident or not.

What if instead of – “I’m really nervous”, you said to yourself – “I’m really excited”?

Would it make you feel better?

Of course it would.

The feelings and emotions linked to nervousness and excitement are actually the same. It’s just that you are giving the adrenaline right direction.

So, what other words could you replace the negative sayings with?

Try swapping:

“I’m feeling tired” to “I’m feeling unresourceful”
“I’m stupid” to “I’m learning”
“I’m angry” to “I’m a little annoyed”
“I’m livid” to “I’m a little miffed”
“I’m overwhelmed” to “I’m feeling busy”
“I’m feeling insecure” to “I’m questioning”
“I’m depressed” to “I’m not on top of things”

As the intensity of the words lower, the intensity of the feelings lessen too.

How to achieve anything you want.

Summary:

  1. Most people’s goals are nothing but weak desires. As a result, they will always find excuses to stay within their comfort zone and put it off.
  2. The only way we will achieve anything is if we committed to making it a must.
  3. When we are committed to do whatever it takes, we will always find a way.
  4. We all have a level of expectation & a level of acceptance. We tend to gravitate towards our level of acceptance
  5. We must raise our level of acceptance by mixing around with people who are better than us, be it at tennis, at parenting or in their career. They inspire us and make us dissatisfied.

The ultimate success formula

beliefs+values -> Goal -> Strategy -> Action -> Feedback -> Change of strategy

beliefs+values -> Goal -> Strategy -> Action -> Success -> Goal

There are three ways people deal with failure

  • give excuses, blame other and give up
  • keep trying the same thing over & over again. get frustrated and quit eventualy
  • get feedback, use it to change their strategy and take action again. repeat this process until they get what they want

Flexibility is the ability to constantly change our strategy and do whatever it takes to get the results we want.

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